I was never baptized, but studied for a while with an elder. He was always getting angry that I wouldn't commit, but I had questions that I he couldn't answer. There was no way I was going to join something so controlling of my life without being 100% sure about it. He also kept trying to pressure me into having his wife study with my wife. Now that I know alittle more about the JW's I am thinking they just needed us to fill their time sheets! I wish I never would have opened my door on that lovely Saturday morning when he came knocking!